Your Destiny is Determined by Your Decisions

Many people attribute stress and anxiety to the bad experiences in their lives. They make this their main focus in life, leaving them feeling down and stressed. The issue with this is – We are addicted to our problems. It is not surprising that we feel down when we are continuously focusing on a negative event over and over in our heads. But what if we gave these bad experiences new meanings? - It is impossible to control the events around us, but the most important thing is that we can choose what to take from this experience and what we do next.

Want to change your life? Make new choices.

Why is it that some people continue to dwell on past events, whereas others take what has happened, learn from it, and take action to better their life? The difference is simple – their decisions. You have the power to choose what controls your life, and this comes with the decisions you make. If you are not happy and feel fed up, the moment you make a decision to do stop dwelling on it and do something different, your life will change forever. If you don’t like the way your career is, CHANGE IT. If you are not happy with your relationship, CHANGE IT. You have the choice to change anything that you want, and by simply changing your decisions you can break free from the negative factors that seem to be controlling your life. Our decisions determine the destiny of our lives.

The reasons why we feel so stressed and anxious is not because of our past, or our present, it is simply to do with the decisions we make and how we let them control our lives.

So let’s reflect…

When your faced with any situation ask yourself these 3 questions:

1. What am I focusing on?

2. What does this mean to me?

3. What am I going to do about it?

By asking yourself these questions you are no longer focusing on the problem and you can start to find solutions.